Monday, January 21, 2013

8 months of mission already gone?! (Jan 14, 2013)


Time goes by so fast. This time ten months later, I'll be going home. Wow. It feels like a long way off, but then I feel like it's so short too.

I got your package. :) Liked the snacks. Liked the clothes. They are all very cute and I like them. See, maybe you do know what I liked afterall :) I'll send back a package of clothes in a few weeks cuz there is a lot of cute clothes I like but cannot wear here, either too cold or skirt too short.

This week's most exciting thing is Moon's baptism. Moon is from Guangdong. She is so awesome. Her family and friends and roommates all disagree with her choice to associate with the church and said a lot of things that made her really sad. But she decided that she'd still talk to us. After talking to us she realized that she is just so happy when she is with church people. There is nothing she learned that is not good, so she decided to move ahead with the baptism this sunday. She was like Grandma, had to do it a few times, but the great thing is that she chose our recent convert, Brother Wang, to do it. So happy to see a recent convert baptizing another :) Wow, happy day yesterday! So many people came too, the room was filled.

She is super awesome. Already sharing the gospel with her friends and classmates. She brought a friend to church last sunday, on the day of her baptism. We are teaching another friend of hers right now. So she is just so good.

Aaron and Jade got all the missionaries to eat dinner at their place this sunday after the baptism. She is a really good cook. Yummy food. :)

President's interviews are this week too. Met with mission president. He asked us if we needed more money. I think we are fed pretty well here in San Francisco language programs. Us, Tagolog elders, and Spanish elders are probably the most well-fed missionaries in the whole mission. :) Oh, by the way, it is confirmed: I have been stable 105 pounds for a while now. I think it's all fat too :) from eating all the meat. Me and Sister Lao, before she left, decided that we'd go vegan for a week. We didn't want to eat any more meat, but of course that didn't turn out very well. We ate a hot dog a few days through :)

New companion is Sister Cherri Chan. She went to BYU too, but she has 2 years left after mission. She is from Hong Kong, and speaks great Cantonese. She is also a great cook. So now I'm the one washing the dishes instead of cooking. :) She does cook good food though, from whatever is in the fridge. She has been in Oakland Chinese for more than a year, so this is probably the only transfer she'll have before she finishes her mission. She has great vision for the area though. She wants to have "20 investigators, 2 baptisms every months". :) So we've got a lot of work to do.

Another thing this week is that Brother Wang went to the temple to do baptisms. Afterwards, he said "I felt so great today. Just so happy. I saved 20 people today" :) He is awesome.

I also got to see one of my recent converts, Tuan, speak at a fireside called Why I Believe. It's where recent converts go up by assignment and bear testimony of why they joined the church and how has it changed their life. It's great to see your recent convert go. I was smiling the whole time. Christine, my first baptism, she also spoke too, but we were riding in other member's car and got there late.

We had zone meeting this week. That's meeting where all the missionaries in the San Francisco West Stake come and talk about our goals and get training. Our zone got 62 baptisms last year :) shooting for even higher next year. The training was on bearing testimonies. It's great to learn about simple principles. Bear testimonies is simple, but when you do it in some ways, it just makes it more powerful. We talked about using "I know...because..." to give personal experience, short and simple. We talked about how to make testimonies personal for us and the investigator, and how to relate it to the topic we are going to teach. For example, if we are teaching the Restoration, we could say "We are going to share Joseph Smith's experience in his own words. His experience has great significance for me because.... I know his experience can change your life too." That makes it relate to them, and they'd listen more. Then at the end after we recite the first vision, we could say something like "I know that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ did appear to Joseph Smith. I know that God answers our prayers, and he can answer yours, if we pray with our heart. I know God still guides us today, and we receive his direction through prophets such as Joseph Smith, through prayer, and through scriptures like the Book of Mormon". Anyway, that's what we learned. Quite good I think. I just feel the vibes in that room when the training was happening. Spirit was so strong. :)

That's pretty much what happened last week. :) Any news at home?

Friday, January 11, 2013

First week of the 2013

We watched movies Monday night. Kung Fu Panda Holidays was quite funny. Our district leader laughed so much that the other elders had to shush him. :) It was funny. Brave was pretty good too, we speak with an accent like they had in the movie for a few days. :) I'm not very good with accents though.
This week has been really busy. Happy busy. We've got 8 investigators as of right now, and most of them are progressing (which means they are reading the scriptures, praying, or coming to church). We have a baptismal date for next Sunday, it might be moved, but hopefully she'll be ready. Her family had an emergency so she had to go back to China for a week, she just came back last Saturday. She is so good though. Will be happy to see her baptized. San Francisco has a lot of floating population. Another one of our investigators is going back to Hong Kong, but we'll pass her to the Hong Kong elders. Anyway, so happy to have the chance to teach these people. All the other areas are picking up speed on the work too. The season is good for the work.
One of our investigators had a really good member to go with us to her lesson, so she helped her a lot in understanding the difference between our church and the usual Christian church, things that she knew but had never considered to be in Christ's church. It's good to see her finally see there is more.
We've had lots of people who fed us these past couple of weeks, we're a little meated-out, so we decided we'll go vegan for the next week. Except, we got our transfers call this week. I'm staying, but Sister Lao is going to Berkeley University Ward!! :) I'm so happy for her! She is going to an awesome place. I'm way to excited and had to stop myself from telling her all about it. :) My new companion, starting from tomorrow, will be Sister Cherri Chan from Hong Kong. So I guess that means I'll still be learning Cantonese. (Carter Chung, one of the member in both Berkeley and SF, said 我的发音很准 ) Sister Chan is a very happy person. She is always smiling, and her eyes are so small like a slit :) She is really nice and personable. She is great friend with Sister Lao, her dad baptized sister lao's mom. Sister Lao says she cooks pretty well too. :)
Oh, by the way, I'm officially 105 pounds, ay...
At church this sunday, we were quite happy to have 2 less actives come back. :)
Because Sister Lao is leaving, we've been invited to meals, last night and today for lunch. :) 沾她的光了 :)
That's pretty much it. :) So I'll be spending Chinese New Year here in San Francisco, among all the Chinese people. :) It'll be cool.
Meng

Monday, December 31, 2012

Last day of 2012 (Dec 31, 2012)

Ashling Stout
4:48 PM (1 hour ago)
to me
 
so crazy that another year passed already. This week, we've been fed and fed. So right now, I think I'm 10 pounds heavier than before my mission.
It was so nice to call you on Monday. Hope you are ok afterwards. :) Make sure to buy a webcam next time though. :)
This week, we have had lots of small miracles, as always. On Thursday, when we were going to English class in downtown to teach someone another pair of missionaries found, Sister Lao saw that a guy was looking at us. She wanted to go and talk to him but there was too many people and he was walking fast. I saw her trying and pretty much gave her a push and so she talked to him. It turned out that he had been to English class before. We invited him to go again. He came that same day. We saw him there and decided we should talk to him about the gospel, so we invited him to learn more right there. And he said yes. We've set another appointment already. He works in Sacramento five days a week but he wants to come to church (which, by the way, doesn't happen very often with people you just meet) So we are happy to have the chance to teach him. Funny how a little flyer or a short conversation can do.
Our mission president changed the standard of excellence (mission goals) for 2013 so we were supposed to have 3 new investigators each week. We're lucky this week to achieve that goal. It is a miracle in itself, cuz we weren't expecting it. :)
We were super stoked though, when our investigator suddenly showed up at church this week. We didn't expect her to come, she should've been working. We usually don't look at our cellphones during sacrament meeting, but for some reason Sister Lao looked, and saw a missed call from her. She was gonna call afterwards but I felt like we should call now. So we sneaked our of announcements time and called her. She was outside trying to find the church building, so we helped her find it and come it. It turned out that her boss decided that day that they were gonna remodel the place, so she had the day off all of a sudden. :) I don't think it's a coincidence.
It's so amazing how wonderful companionships are. It always takes two to have things happen. If Sister Lao didn't want to talk to the guy, or I never push her to go for it, we'd never teach him. If sister Lao didn't check our cellphone for no reason, or if I didn't insist we call now, we'd never have our investigator at church.
On Christmas Day, we went to the Visitor Center ot hear the Sister missionaries' christmas devotional. They are all dressed so well and they sang so well. It's like whole bunch of angels :) Love those people.
Thanks for the gifts, by the way. Sorry I can't send pictures today, will do next week. On X-mas day, we spent our exercise time trying to make C, H, R, I, S, T, M, A, S with our bodies. It was hilarious. We did that and open our presents and eat all within one and half hour, quite proud of us :) Anyway, it was wonderful opening presents from everyone. Justin and Bonnie gave me a notebook (always so useful for missions), got lots of cards, including from Chris and Chelane, Steph Jason and kids... Got a dress from a sister in the ward. And of course your things made me quite happy. We drank hot chocolate with those crackers. It was fun. Already started using the stickers, bookmarks are quite pretty. Robe is so soft, :) love it. Can't remember everything, but it was just all really good :) Sister Lao gave me a card holder, cuz I keep losing my bus pass in my bag among all the stuff that's in there. :) I gave her a book organizer cuz she has a hard time with stacking her books and she has to try to restack everyday, I thought she should just put it all up like a bookshelf. :)
I'm talking a lot for some reason, but anyway. Our less active said he talked to his boss to change his schedule to come to church next week. :) Progress, progress.
We had ward X-mas dinner on Saturday. Us the missionaries performed 12 days of Christmas in Chinese, with slight moderation on the lyrics. Here is a part of it
On the ___ day of Christmas my true love gave to me,
a partridge in a pear tree
two turtle doves
three French hens
four calling birds
five golden rings
six geese a laying
seven swans a swimming
eight maids a milking
nine ladies dancing
ten lords a leaping
eleven pipers piping
twelve drummers drumming
在圣诞第__天我的朋友送给我
一只鸟在梨树上
两只白鸽子
三只法国鸡
四只愤怒鸟
五金戒指
六个鹅下鸡蛋
七个鹅在游泳
八个人喝牛奶
九个女生跳舞
十个疯狂男生
十一个人在吹笛
十二鼓手敲鼓
Anyway, it was really fun. We had so much fun trying to translate the song. We had other crazy ideas, which included making a Christmas-LDS version of 西游记, but we didn't want the members to identify us with the characters. (取经是去取摩而门经) It was just a lot of fun. Our elders are pretty funny.
The mission's yearly tradition is to have a missionary New Year's party where we all gather together to watch movie with our zone. We are doing it tonight, and watching all G or PG movies. One is called Brave, the other is Kong Fu Panda HOlidays.
Hmm...I like Christmas :) But HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Friday, December 28, 2012

Christmas Eve (Dec 24, 2012)

Well, it is Christmas Eve already. I think time is just going by really fast. Tomorrow is Christmas. We have 2 dinner appointments tonight, so we'll have double dinner. Then we have one for lunch tomorrow, and one for dinner. I think we are gonna over eat for these few days. :) I'm really glad to be in Chinese branch, especially at this season. :)

The highlight of this week would be our zone caroling at Union Square, which is in the middle of downtown San Francisco. We did it right by the Macy's christmas tree, which is gigantic. We had lots of people who video and take picture. We had a table of materials out for them to take, and a lot of them took something. We had a quite outgoing Tongan elder who was really good at getting people comfortable enough to take things. There was only two companionships of sisters in our whole zone, and we went out to pass out materials and talk to people nearby half of the time. It was quite fun and quite happy.

It really doesn't feel like Christmas yet, maybe because most days are just the same for us. But, as Elder Holland says, what a good way to celebrate Christmas to serve the His children. :)

So we are quite happy. Planning on opening gifts tomorrow morning, before we have our regular studies schedule. Sister Lao got lots of packages. I got a letter from the Chinese ward at SL :), a purple package from Bonnie and Justin which I haven't opened, a card from Stephanie and Jason, and yours of course :) Quite happy.

Not much else going on. One of our less active member is going to change his work schedule and start coming to church every sunday. :) Another less active wants to go to BYU for some reason and so decided that he will come to church every sunday now.

Our baptism on the 13th is still quite solid. She is awesome. Our recent converts and forming their own little group :) They get along quite well. So happy to see them progress, getting the priesthood, passing the sacrament, and even talking about going to the temple and eternal marriages (). It's all good.

One of our recent converts introduced us to his friend, so brave. :) And his friend was slightly interested and agreed to learn more.

It's gonna be good. Hope your end will be good too. :)

Love you! Will call you tonight around 8pm.

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Visite Chocolate Factory on P-day(Dec 17, 2012)







 So last week we went to the chocolate factory. We saw how they made chocolate. They had these coco plants which has a fruit called the cacao pod, and then the seed inside they roast it and it is like 100% dark chocolate, and they have to mix in milk powder to make it more sweet and not completely bitter. It's kind of cool. We got lots of chocolates to taste, which was bad for dinner. :) But we had clam chowder soup at Fisherman's Wharf. I forgot my camera today :), so I'll try to send pictures next week. But it was pretty.

Got your package, opened it and saw the note, then closed it, so I don't know what's inside yet. Thanks though :) Made me happy

We had zone conference this week. This time it was more Christmas oriented. They mission bought a lot of little things, food, toilet paper, candy, things like that, and it was wrapped in gifts so we couldn't see, but we had to choose and that was our gift. I got cereal, but it actually tasted pretty good. :) We learned about how to fold our laundry, especially the elders. We learned how to back a car :) Anyway, besides that, we sang O Holy Night. It was quite good. We also watched a video from President Holland, really made me want to be more hardworking. It seems not so long ago that I just got here. Can you believe it's 7 months already?

We had exchange this week too. I stayed in Daly City with Sister Croft. We went tracting a lot, but we also had lots of lessons. She is really good at tracting. Hold on, send the pictures, then will continue...
She just knew what to say when she meets people, and she doesn't ask the same questions very often. Anyway, it made me a little braver at talking to people. So now, I'm just shooting for it and things usually come out alright. What's quite amazing is that this week we try to have a vision of who everyone we meet can become, as soon as we see them. It helped a lot in finding, I'm not sure if we just met a lot of successful people last week, but we had quite a few good potential investigators now.

Our investigator with a date is still solid and she loves the members. They invite her to dinners and she loves to be with them. She goes to all the events too, despite it being finals week.

We got to go to the visitor's center twice this week to take our investigator and recent converts to events there. The temple is so beautiful, they've got the lights on. :)

That's pretty much my week. Going soon.

Monday, December 3, 2012

Got new car! 1st lesson in Cantonese! (Dec 3, 2012)

We got a new district leader this week. The only new person in this transfer. Elder Davidson (sun1 zhanglao) from Virginia. He is quite funny. He came on his mission one transfer after us, he has to learn Chinese in the MTC.
 
THis week has been highly interesting. San Francisco is full of ... different...people. Lots of Filipinos, Chinese, and Hispanics. We got someone who yelled us us for pushing the doorbell, :)
 
Oh, great thing this week is that we got a new car. Completely brand new. It's a 2013 Ford Cruise :) Smells new, I had to open the window to be not gagged inside. It only had 75 miles when we got it. :) So cool. And guess what color it is? Sapphire  :) It took us a while to figure out how to work the car, too advanced. I like it. HOw did we get this car? Well, first of all, we hit our previous car. It was an accident. I pulled into the parking spot as the elders were opening the door. None of us saw the other until we heard the crunch, so our car had to get fixed, so we got a red car temporarily. The red car is old and needed to be sold. Elder Bailey, the mission vehicle person, had told the elders before to change the oil on the red car, but they never did, he also told another pair of elders, and they never did, when we got the red car, we changed it, not knowing that it was such a big deal for him. Then we get this call from him saying, because you did the oil change, you get the new car. :) Cool. Now we are famous in the mission home for changing the oil.
 
Also great this week is that we got a new investigator. Another golden one that is so prepared. When we asked her if she will be baptized once she knows what we teach is true, she said "of course!" :) So yeah. She is from Guangdong, so she speaks Cantonese. The member who introduced her to us is so awesome. She just got baptized in April in Hong Kong, and she is only here for three weeks, but she is sharing the gospel with everyone still. :)
 
My Cantonese is getting better, I think. I can understand what the topic they are talking about any time, but as for sentences and words, not so much. I can understand enough to add. I taught the first lesson to Sister Lao this week, all in Cantonese. It was really crazy, we laughed so much.
 
Had another experience tracting at Supermarket. A guy came up and started saying Joseph Smith is a fraud because he got charged and was in jail for fraud or something. He is an athiest and doesn't think God exists. So all I did was teach and testify, then testify and testify. At the end, he was silent for a few second and just said "I got to go." He had no basis for his arguments and he knew that I knew the Book of Mormon is true and Joseph Smith saw what he saw. It was quite interesting. Left him something to think about for sure.
 
Don't know if you saw the Christmas Devotional, but it's quite good.
 
This past sunday, our recent convert (Brother Wang) passed the sacrament to us :) and he bore his testimony too. so happy. Then another one (Bro Zou) got confirmed. So it's a pretty good sacrament meeting.
 
Got your letters. Glad you had a good enough Thanksgiving, especially with out me 

Thursday, November 29, 2012

The boy who referred himself got baptism, Yeah! (Nov 26, 2012)


Hi Mom,

So we got our transfers call last Saturday. I'm staying in SF, still with Sister Lao. So I guess we'll have a San Francisco Christmas. Extra cold. We are quite happy though.

Thanksgiving was great. We had three dinner appointments. I was quite proud of myself not eating too much, even though I liked some of the food very much :) It wasn't my best day though. I think it's true what they say, you are happiest when you are working hard. I felt like I'd rather have a day teaching and talking to people rather than sitting and eating too much food. We have awesome ward members though. I think we'll be eating Thanksgiving leftovers for the next week still. We still have turkey leftovers in the fridge.

We had a ward Thanksgiving dinner too, so that's more food. I just eat normal amounts though. We had lots of less actives and investigators come, so it's good to have them talk with members.

Most exciting last week is of course the baptism. :) Brother Zou from Shanghai. He is great. He was the one that referred himself on mormon.org to meet with us. He was totally happy. Everything went smooth. He was happy. Lots of people went. Perfect :)

We are having a baptism next week too, in Berkeley. The person I got to teach before. :)

You take care yourself, Mom....